“I no longer feel that I need to approach women in a trial-and-error manner to learn how to approach. Rather, I approach women knowing that I have the skills to do so, and this makes me even more comfortable approaching women out in the real world.
The results were phenomenal; I almost literally walked away a different man, with much more awareness of my masculine energy and how women felt when I approached them.”
I attended one 40-50 minute 1-on-1 session with James on how to approach and interact with women as something more than ‘just friends’. The results were phenomenal; I almost literally walked away a different man, with much more awareness of my masculine energy and how women felt when I approached them. Most importantly, however, I walked away with a considerably higher skill level in terms of meeting new women.
James has a great and particularly unique mode of teaching. It is 1 on 1, with an approach 100% tailored to the individual’s looks, habits, and mentalities. We are all at different stages of the journey towards a life abundant with women, and James does not provide any default advice in hope of his students absorbing what they can of it. Instead, he scrutinises every word, every look and every movement that you make when you approach a beautiful woman. He boils this down to a certain mentality towards women that he improves and builds upon, and his amazing attention to detail is evident in his changing, for example, your stance, positioning of arms, posture, conversational ability, eye contact, body language, tone of voice, and the physical contact and distance between you make with the woman. James does not cut down and rebuild a man’s skill set with women such that it adheres to a manner of interaction that once worked for someone else. Rather, he streamlines what we naturally do as we talk to women, as he helps us to understand that we are all attractive to women, albeit in different ways, and it is futile and unfulfilling trying to be someone you are not.
There is a focus on both the mechanics of the approach, and also the mentalities underlying your interactions and conversations with women (highlighting the subtle differences between interactions with both friends and lovers). I improved dramatically in only one 40-50 minute session. I started off very unsure of how to hold myself, my nerves blatantly obvious to the beautiful woman I was practising my approach on. I was almost robotic and hesitant to even stand near her as I approached, acutely aware of the awkwardness of my stance and what little I could think of by way of conversation.
However, as James continually pointed out my bad habits (and explaining where they derived from and why they could be improved upon), I saw myself drastically improve both in terms of my comfort of the approach, and the smooth flow of conversation and escalating sexual tension. By the end, I found myself in a near embrace, centimetres away from a beautiful woman who was genuinely blushing as stared into her eyes in a confident and sexually charged way that I had never done before. In retrospect, the change was phenomenal! James’ 1 on 1 style of teaching and his streamlining of my unique approach of women had led to a simple but surprisingly powerful shift in mentality, one absolutely invaluable in my interactions with women.
I felt that James had shown me the bad habits that I had always unwittingly harboured, and showed me that I can easily improve upon them so as to both feel much more at ease around women, and to make women feel much more at ease around me. He allowed me to not only understand it intellectually, which is the way most coaches in his area of expertise tend to teach, but he allowed me to understand it experientially and thus in a much deeper manner. I no longer feel that I need to approach women in a trial-and-error manner to learn how to approach.
Rather, I approach women knowing that I have the skills to do so, and this makes me even more comfortable approaching women out in the real world. One 40-50 minute session alone made much more difference in this area than anything else I had tried. I highly recommend that anyone stuck on a plateau, oblivious to their bad habits and still striving for improvement in the area of women, experiment with what James has to offer. I hope that you, too, will gain what I did in your adventures with women.