“Twenty-seven year old geeky virgin becomes international sex stud and travels the world for 11 years fucking the planet’s most beautiful women and now he teaches six lucky wannabe sex studs every month how to be sex gods.
I think you’ve been really clever in using the female instructors to pave that path so the transition from getting information and applying it, it’s much more of a linear path.
I got much more value than I was expecting, much more.”
Why did you choose Social Coach?
I guess probably my skepticism was just sort of very simple. Your methodology is very simple and my exposure to the community was through the other stuff, which is sort of really heavy in technique. So I was just wondering, because everybody is heavy in technique and I was wondering is it possible to do it without that.
I sort of felt a lot of the other products are just for horny young guys. A lot of young guys just want to, are not so interested in becoming more, but just more interested in getting more pussy. Whereas I was interested in just becoming more. Post-divorce I was very poor with my social skills pretty much as a whole.
Over a process I’ve been improving myself because when I was first divorced I would go out by myself and I would actually get the shakes, the anxiety just being in a room full of people. Over three years I went from that to being able to actually go up and talk to girls but I’d plateaued at getting in front of a couple of girls, speaking to them, feeling that they were interested in me, and then I’d plateau there. I couldn’t do the beyond that, I wasn’t really sure what to do. So I decided I need some help.
What benefits have you seen already?
Probably for me personally the most valuable day was today where we were specifically about how to break through that plateau that I’ve been at for just the longest time, and been frustrated. So the greatest value for me was just knowing how to go from the being in front of them, having a conversation, sensing they have attraction to you, and then going from there to a level of intimacy where sex is on the table and both of us are aware of it and we’re both heading in that direction.
Best thing about the Bootcamp?
I think having female coaches. I think that’s a tremendous idea that you can actually work with the girls. Having a guy explaining the logistics to you, explaining how it’s done and then maybe demonstrating when he’s out and then just saying to you, “Right, now you go and replicate.” That’s quite a leap and I think there’s quite a canyon between doing it yourself and getting that sort of instruction.
I think you’ve been really clever in using the female instructors to pave that path so the transition from getting information and applying it, it’s much more of a linear path. We went to the YHA and I sat down next to a girl and spoke to her and touched her and so on, and it felt quite easy and natural. And that’s because I’ve done it many times this weekend with your trainers.
What did you learn from watching James approach?
Just seeing your swagger really. That’s what I thought, I thought, “He’s got swagger.” So when you were going into a set solo you just went in there with some kind of swagger, some kind of oomph. I saw you do it and I thought that I’d like to be able to go in with that same kind of, not necessarily energy, but presence—probably presence—that’s the best word for it. You were going into sets with presence. Even when I was talking to someone you would come in and just say, “Hey, what’s going on?” You’d check on me. The presence was powerful when you were there.
Also when you went into a set and then you would immediately bring me in. I thought that was great as well. I felt like one of your compadres.
You were doing what you taught us. You were opening sets with light touch, higher energy than they had, and then you were asking the open questions and then you just seemed to be jumping on the right topic choices, and just engaging them quite quickly I thought.
I thought that when you were going into a set, the sort of inevitable period of discomfort when you sort of go into a set and they’re not expecting you to be there, I kind of felt with you it was really small. It was really small. It went from you’re suddenly not there to them being comfortable with you being there quite rapidly.
That’s what I mean that it was just the presence you brought with you.
How do you think the Bootcamp will impact your life?
I think I’ll definitely get laid more. That’s probably the prime thing. Because when my relationship ended I was like, “Awesome. I’m going to have a period of getting lots of pussy before I even think about having another woman.” And I had one girlfriend, a Costa Rican girl, but it’s been a lot of dry in there as well.
I think that’s going to break that drought. I go out probably once every two weeks and inevitably what happens is—it’s the same thing every time. Go out, talk to girls, it’s all going good, they like me and then up,up, it’s going great and then I just stay there on that thing and then it’s like, “What do I do from here?” So I say, “See you later.” I go into the next set probably thinking that maybe something will be different, but it’s not, it’s always exactly the same.
I know now what to do. It’s really as simple as that. I know what to do.
Any highlights of the Bootcamp?
Probably the couple of times that have been outside of the formal part of the boot camp, where I’ve just been me by myself just in the general community. Last night, after these two gave me a bum steer and changed their mind where they wanted to go after we got in the cab, so we got off at the cab stop not where I thought we were going and so I had to walk from there and I got lost.
There was some pretty girl so I just went up and said, “Hey, I’m kind of lost. Can you help me out?” I started having a conversation with her and she was a really attractive young, French girl. Instead of just going, “Yeah, it’s down there,” she said, “I’ll walk with you.” So she actually pretty much walked me back to within seeing distance of my hotel. So that was really good.
Then tonight, in the YHA, when we went in I was, “That’s an attractive girl, let’s give it a spin.” I went in there and sat down and just pretty much did exactly what we’d been practicing today. Because it wasn’t in a controlled environment and you guys weren’t there saying, “Go here, go there,” it was just me doing what I can do now. It was pretty empowering.
Yeah, what Rebecca said before actually. That was a real sort of paradigm tweak that was. To say that it’s not about entertaining the girl, because that was totally what I was doing, but it’s more about just seeing if she’s up to the standard that I want in my life. I think that’s pretty good.
Just when we went in there and I had just worked with Natalie and Bec, and we just went—they just showed me exactly what it was I really came here for, and that was to know how to go from the face to face friendly in each other’s presence, to actually making it sensual and intimate.
How happy are you about doing it?
I’m very pleased that I did it and I think it was a great idea that I did it. For three thousand dollars I was wondering but I’m really pleased. It was a good idea.
Value for money?
Yeah, I’d say easily three thousand dollars. I think you’re very generous, very generous in your energy and in your time, both of you. I’m certainly I’m not going to leave here thinking that I didn’t get value for money. I think I got much more value than I was expecting, much more.
I got much more from you guys than what I was expecting because you’ve really given a lot of yourselves, which really makes it kind of really special. It’s kind of like a really special thing. You guys going, “Look at this.” It’s like a little powwow isn’t it? And it couldn’t be possible with that unless you guys were sort of creating that energy field, so it’s a lot of giving. Thank you.
Think of a friend who would benefit from this training. What would you say to him?
I would say don’t waste the next couple of years trying to figure it out yourself to save three thousand dollars, it’s a silly idea. Just have somebody who is an expert at it and has done it repeatedly show you how to do it and just get it taken care of and so there’ll be no more complaining about where you’re at, at the moment. You can just start living the life that you want to live.
How would you sum up the Bootcamp?
Twenty-seven year old geeky virgin becomes international sex stud and travels the world for 11 years fucking the planet’s most beautiful women and now he teaches six lucky wannabe sex studs every month how to be sex gods.