“[I’m] a lot happier, a lot more comfortable with myself. A lot less scared of judgment, a lot less scared of outcome.
[If I hadn’t done the training] I’d probably be dead. I probably would have killed myself. I don’t think that’s an exaggeration. It not just improved the quality of my life, but saved my life, and has given me the confidence to actually just be who I am”
James: What changes have you seen in yourself since the Bootcamp?
David: That’s when I noticed that all of a sudden my success started coming again actually I feel good about myself again, it was probably at the lowest of lows, that I’ve been, probably in my life, and you know so having that turn around, I realized that you know, a lot of the, you know, thoughts I was having was quite toxic, you know just having those pretty much gone within a month. It’s pretty good.
So I guess changes yeah, a lot happier, a lot more comfortable with myself. I don’t know if that answers the question.
James: What do you feel like you’ve achieved as a result of the training? Obviously girls and sex first.
David: I think just some confidence in the simplicity and sophistication of it all. So I guess the main thing is really just me thinking actually I’m pretty good! You know, whereas before I think was looking for reasons to justify why would someone like me, is my bank balance enough, am I successful enough, and my age lines have I got the crows feet showing all that kind of stuff, I’ve got some grey hairs. Just sort of going and not caring so much about that.
James: Your success and happiness with women sort of before and after the Bootcamp?
David: Yeah, well… before my first ever Bootcamp, was pretty shocking. Just having some minor successes from there was enough to keep me going through that dark patch, to make me feel like you know, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, I can do better.
James: Great. So in terms of socially and at work, how has it helped you?
David: Once again, from the first bootcamp till now a lot less scared. A lot less scared of judgment, a lot less scared of outcome. It’s more a case of…it’s like, you know, as soon as you get out of your head, it’s the same I do with training. There’s a situation, I’ve no idea what’s going to happen, I could get severely injured, let’s see, and you just throw yourself in and then everything just works for you. You know, it becomes a bit of a game then. That’s when you can just start playing with things, soon as you just go, don’t know what’s going to happen, oh well, and you go in. You know, you get the best experiences, like if it’s the best success, or the best feedback. I’m less scared to experiment and less scared to worry about all [inaudible], and it’s more just about putting yourself out there and just sort of saying hey, this is me, you know, and just trying to do that the best possible way.
James: Where do you think you’d be if you hadn’t done the training?
David: I’d probably be dead. I probably would have killed myself. I don’t think that’s an exaggeration. I think I would have been wondering why people weren’t, like why I struggled socially, why women weren’t attracted to me, why I couldn’t get a decent girlfriend. All those things, and I think some of them you’d know you end up sad, lonely, depressed individual. I don’t think, you know, if I was still alive, I’d probably wish I wasn’t.
So this is a major part of you know of people’s existence that I think is brought into people’s knowledge in a very poor way I think. So I think what you guys do is just fantastic. Yeah, and I’m not joking when I say it’s a lifesaver. I probably can’t thank you enough.
James: If you’d a choice between still having the money you’ve spent on the training or the benefits of the training, what would you say to that?
David: You know, the money’s not a factor really. It’s a small price to pay. Like Pete said, the money, it pays for itself. I think you know without probably the social confidence that I’ve had since…I probably wouldn’t have been confident enough to start…
James: Wouldn’t have had the confidence to start this business, I think you said.
James: Please repeat that. Can you put an estimate on how much it would have been worth to you? Benefits in your life too, socially, romantically, business, sexually, obviously.
David: A dollar value on it?
David: About 10 grand, easily. That’s what I think.
John: The figure that jumped in my head was $30,000. To me I think the Bootcamp was worth $30,000.
David: I’d say that the course has helped me in a way that I can’t measure, that I can’t really put a dollar value on it. I think it not just improved the quality of my life, but saved my life, and has given me the confidence to actually just be who I am without the concern for judgment and social restrictions, and things like that.
Yeah, I’d recommend this course to anyone who wants to improve that area of their lives, or any area of their lives really. It all comes back to this kind of thing. Yeah, like I said I’d pay a lot more than the amount that I did pay, just to have the same experience.