“The Most Amazing Thing That’s Ever Happened To Me”

“You guys are the most amazing thing that has happened to me. I don’t even feel like the same person, I’ve changed so much…
I am an entirely different person and there’s an entire lifetime of experiences that has been opened up to me since the Bootcamp that I would never been able to get near if I hadn’t been given the confidence, if I hadn’t learnt these skills…
It’s the best money I’ve ever spent.”

Name: TJ
Age: 26
Occupation: Games Developer
Location: Vancouver, Canada

Transcript

And I’ve said it so many time now, but James, Bec you guys are the most amazing thing that has happened to me – thank you, so much.

There were just so many amazing moments – so many times when I was so far out of my comfort zone – I didn’t even know if I was being the same person I’d convinced myself I was for the last 25 year before the Bootcamp.

Well, the things I’ve changed about life since the course – I don’t even feel like the same person – I’ve changed so much. I had some, sort of, toxic friends at the time and I went out and made new friends. Most of the people that I know I’ve met and befriended since the Bootcamp, most of my close friends these days. And I can trust them so much more because it wasn’t that we were both sort of socially outcast in the same direction but these are people that I met because I wanted to met them and that I know are good people. And I am friends with them because they’re good people and because I could choose. So, these skills go way beyond women and they go into everything.

At the time I was really unhappy in my job. I’ve moved in-between a couple of jobs and now I’m moving countries. Which is something I that I don’t even think I would have had the confidence to do before the Bootcamp. And now I’m going over there with the certainty in the back of my mind that, though I maybe only know two people over there, I can make new friends, I can meet new girls. It’s not even something that I’m even worried about. And, that changed my life in such an amazing way.

I didn’t realise how much James and Bec were, sort of, propping me up and really, sort of, pushing me along. So once I came out it was, sort of, “Oh man, I’m on my own”. My greatest fear was it’s going to be completely different now that I don’t have James and Bec around and that was wrong. It really was wrong. Everything that I’d done, I’d done. I was able to go out and do exactly the same things and just walk up to people. It was still hard, you know. It was effort for about the first 3 months afterwards. I was dating this really gorgeous German gymnast girl, that I meant through the swing dancing and just pushing myself to.. half of it was a motivation – this girl was so gorgeous that I wanted to keep her – and half of it was motivation that I knew what I wanted, what I had to do.

I found that it has really, really just changed me.

Value for money? I don’t think there is even a question of being able to compare the two. I mean, I am an entirely different person and there’s an entire lifetime of experiences that has been opened up to me since the Bootcamp that I would never have had open up to me, that I never would’ve been able to get near if I hadn’t been given the confidence, if I hadn’t learnt these skills. Like I said I now have amazing friends, I have a whole new career to go to in a whole new country. It’s the best money I’ve ever spent and I would have spent the amount of money I spent on just one of the “a-ha” moments. I’m just amazed that I got so much out of it.

And I’ve said it so many time now, but James, Bec you guys are the most amazing thing that has happened to me – thank you, so much.

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